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Why you should do a Boudoir Photoshoot

Amorie Arts Boudoir Shoot

Boudoir by Amorie Arts Pretoria

Why you should put a Boudoir Photoshoot on your Bucket List

I belief strongly that you should be a product of your product. After going through a very difficult relationship, a friend recommended a photoshoot. At first, I was nervous because I really didn’t feel good about myself. I bit the bullet and went for the shoot… after getting the photos, I was actually so impressed I gave myself a high five (Where no one saw me…weird I know but the feeling was awesome). It was the first step for me to feel good about myself again. I couldn’t stop (haha), I went for so many shoots that I became a part-time model and this whole concept really became a passion for me. I decided to try the other side of the lens, I’m all for women empowerment and I wanted other women to experience this too. I’ve been a photographer now for the last 7+ years. I’ve seen from being in front of, to behind the lens that photo shoots are really a secret key to self-confidence.

Through experience and after photographing hundreds of women for beauty and boudoir portraits, I’ve found a few things most women have in common before their photo shoot, I felt it too…

Most women show up to the shoot thinking they won’t look as good as the women on Magazine covers, that they have to look a certain way or be a certain weight to look good in front of the lens, that they won’t like the photos of themselves, or that they’re “not photogenic”. This is common, sadly, most women don’t believe in their beauty….yet.

But with every woman I’ve worked with, they walk out of the studio uplifted, empowered and you can see that they feel more comfortable in their skin.

So what is it about a boudoir shoot that can change so many women’s perspectives of themselves?

Doing a BOUDOIR shoot is the ultimate challenge (that is why I decided to do Boudoir). You are in a vulnerable state where you literally have to strut your stuff that you would rather prefer to hide. But the beauty in it is that you are celebrating yourself for exactly what age and weight you are at this very moment (you are the youngest that you will ever be today), investing in yourself, stepping out of your comfort zone and seeing yourself through somebody else’s eyes (and lens).

Combined with the art of posing I will help you with every single pose. It is important for me to take the most beautiful pictures of you that anyone has ever taken. To capture the real you in a raw and stunning way. To show you your beauty, even if you don’t see it yourself. In the beginning of each of my photo shoots, I show my client one of the photos I took on my camera. This photo unretouched, unedited, just straight out of camera. I’ve had reactions ranging from disbelief to happy tears.

This truly is life changing stuff.

So all you have to do is bring your outfits (read my “Dream shoot planner” for guidance), and leave the rest to me. I will sort through them and plan the looks and discuss the look and feel of the shoot with you. I can do any type of shoot from moody and contrasty to light and airy. We can even change it up.

Be the woman who decided to go for it… challenge yourself and do this shoot, it will be worth it (I promise).

 

Click on this link to download my Boudoir Price list, I have a 10% Discount on all my Boudoir Packages at the moment: >> Boudoir Price List

 

Click on this link to download my Dream shoot planner:>>  Dream Shoot Planner

 

Follow the link to the testimonials of a few women I have worked with: >> http://amoriearts.com/testimonials/

 

To book your session, contact me: >> http://amoriearts.com/contact/

 

Identifying Limiting Beliefs

Identifying Limiting Beliefs

The 7 most common limiting beliefs that might be holding you back and how to overcome them.

A lot of people focus on ‘positive thinking’, but in order to think positive thoughts and to renew our mind, we must identify the limiting beliefs we have formed.  If you don’t believe right, you will not be able to think positive thoughts consistently.

We all have limiting beliefs that prevent us from going after what we want in life.  Whether its a dream, a goal, pursuing a new career path, a new passion, a new relationship, a new lifestyle or a new adventure.  We give up so easily because we tell ourselves it is impossible, or we are aiming too high.

Why? What happens right after we think or imagine something amazing for ourselves? Why don’t we take action? 

Right after that thought, self-doubt and fear creep in, do these seem familiar:  “What if I fail? What will the world think of me? What if I get rejected? What makes me so deserving to have a good life?”

These limiting thoughts are created from the dysfunctional society that we live in and the upbringing that we had. At a young age, we were taught “how” to live. These beliefs were formed through the messages that came from our parents, our friends (and bullies), our teachers, society, our culture, the media, TV etc.  

Here are the 7 most common limiting beliefs that may be blocking your success and how you can overcome them:

Limiting Belief #1: I am not good enough.

If you are constantly criticizing yourself or working on yourself to make yourself better, you are sending a message out that don’t believe in your ability to attract health, wealth and the success you deserve.  

If you expect to never get what you want in life, that is exactly what you will get. 

Change your mindset by believing that you are deserving of all the good things you want, then meditate on that.  Feel it, imagine it and visualize it. For example: if you want to start a new lifestyle, imagine how good you feel when you wake up in the morning… what it will feel like to be her/him. Step into that version of you.

Even if you have a lot to learn, realize that is what keeps life interesting.

Limiting Belief #2:  I have to step back so that others can be abundant.

Sometimes you suffer so much that you aren’t helping yourself – or others.  Even if you make it easier for others to be abundant, you can’t MAKE them abundant.

While they may have gifts you don’t, you also have gifts that no one else has.  When you shut yourself off from those gifts, you deprive everyone around you, including yourself.

When you place others first and take on too much, it’s normal to feel resentment, helpless, overwhelmed, frustrated and lonely.

You can overcome this limiting belief by practising loving kindness towards yourself.  Find your place in life, and own your story.  Be open-hearted and connect without losing yourself.  Take time to relax and enjoy the comforts of life. You deserve it.

Limiting Belief #3:  There isn’t enough for everyone.

You might feel that there isn’t enough for everyone and so you have to rush to take what belongs to you. Or you might believe that there isn’t enough for you, so you can’t have what you want.

This can apply to anything: money, time, jobs, single men/women etc.

Often the limiting belief that there isn’t enough for everyone comes from fear.  You will most likely wonder – How will you get the money? How will you meet him?  etc.

Every time you say or think that there isn’t enough, that is exactly what you will not have – enough. 

You have the power to change that! It’s your choice to believe and have faith that you WILL have enough, and don’t worry about the rest or competing with others. Focus on your journey. You will enjoy life a lot more.

Limiting Belief #4: I have to seek approval from others.

Every time you seek approval from someone else, you’re blocking your natural attractiveness and you’re not allowing yourself to know what it is you truly want from life.  When you are your true self, life just works better.  You naturally draw people to you who realize how awesome you are.  If you are your true fearless self, you will attract opportunities to you.

Limiting Belief #5: I have to be who I’m expected to be.

It’s draining and overwhelming to have to always meet others expectations. You might feel resentful, guilty or trapped.  You may act out with addictions (food, extra weight, financial debt, alcohol etc.).

You have to realize that the life you are living is a life you had a part in creating.  If you focus on sacrificing yourself to meeting others expectations, you will continue to create a life where you have to place others first or you have to make up for not being good enough.

It’s time to take back your power! Your value lies in who you ARE, not in another’s expectations.  

You can overcome this by being putting yourself first.  Don’t be scared to be selfish with your heart and to invest in yourself.  When you fill yourself up, you will give from a place of overflow.  Find ways to express yourself – dance, arts, music, saying yes/no.  Let go of the rules and follow our inner guidance.  Give yourself space to heal emotionally and physically if you need it.

Limiting Belief #6:  I have to work hard to succeed.

It’s true that you have to take action to achieve your dreams, but it shouldn’t feel like a burden, time pressure or an invisible force keeping you stuck where you are.  

If you expect to work hard to be successful, odds are that is exactly what you will have to do.  

Overcome this limiting belief by focusing on the actions that are in alignment with your goals.  The more you enjoy them, the more opportunities will open up for you and everything will fall into place.  

Limiting Belief #7:  It has to be like this.

When you think or say that something has to be a certain way, its a sign of a limiting belief.

This belief also comes up if you think you’re the only one who knows how to do something or if you think your way is the only way.  They are limiting beliefs focused on control. 

You probably notice a lot of tension in your body, you may be suppressing your emotions or holding back, or you’re constantly watching what either you or others are doing.

You can overcome this limiting belief by seeing life as one big party where the only thing expected of you is to have fun and be joyful. Be open to any help and opportunities that are sent your way to help you reach your dreams and goals. Listen to your intuition to show you the best thing to do at any moment.

But most of all, relax, have fun and faith… it will all work out… trust the process.